Give him some space for now to let go of the negative emotions he has towards you before trying to win him back again. Avoid pressuring him now, because even if you do convince him to give you a second shot, there’s a good chance that he hasn’t fully forgiven you or trusts you, which may cause problems further into the relationship.

Hi, Me and my girlfriend have broken up recently as she found out that I was messaging a girl at work in a flirtatious way, I never had any attraction to this girl at all and only messaged her this way in fear of being alone; always being scared that my girlfriend would leave me and now she has. I also cheated on her again before that when I met with a girl who gave me a lift and proceeded to kiss me although I did push her away and told my girlfriend straight away and she forgave me. Throughout the relationship I never gave her the attention or effort that she wanted no matter how many times she told me I was never mature enough to change. Once she left me I realised everything that I could be doing to make it better but she’s telling me it is too late, although we did break up about a week ago and she states that she doesn’t want to be with someone that has ruined her trust like I have but she still loves me. (altro…)