I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago. A year ago I cheated on her and kissed another girl and that’s it. She found out a month after the that and told me she wouldn’t break up with me and would try again. 5 months ago we started living together and after 4 months all went sideways. She told me she doesn’t want to be with me anymore and still feels hurt after that incident. I gave her space for 3-4 days and contacted her. Tried to be fun and make her laugh, but she told me yesterday that she feels hurt and its hurting more when she is talking to me and when I try to make her laugh and feel happy. What should I do ?

For one/two weeks ago she said she still had feelings for me, she asked me a lot about how everything is with me now, so I know she cares

You should apologize and be sincere about making things up to her. She may feel that you’re underplaying the situation and this makes her feel taken for granted, and like she doesn’t matter. (altro…)