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I actually don’t know if she has this disorder but i know she’s got something. She display many of these signs but not as extreme as what has been portrayed. She also displays many signs that don’t fit .
My ex got pretty much the best “me” I could give, or have ever given in a romantic relationship. The hardest thing for me is knowing that we truly had a mental connection. When things took off in the relationship, we just clicked.
As I said above I “practice.” This woman is very important to me. Important enough for me to look at myself and understand the chinks in my own armor. Important enough for me to clearly state my boundaries regardless of what that statement may mean. It always feels like it’s going to be a bigger issue than it turns out to be when you’re honest enough to tell someone what your bottom line is. I’m embarking on my first truly remarkable journey with a BPD diagnosed woman.
It still boggles my ming how a slight change in scenarios we both shared resulted in him BPD more prone to rage, and me more prone to depression. I now have a wide circle of acquaintances that are not his mutual friends. Your reply is candid and I appreciate you opening up and sharing about your life; it’s inspired me to return the gesture in my comment here. You have said some very thoughtful things. He also said typical borderline things, like how I’m “too nice” which was weird as I felt so sorry for him, about his exes cheating and being bitches. At first he seemed so relieved to have a soft-hearted person like me.
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In one of her texts I saw last month and this dropped me to the floor is she texted this nephew about sex, describing how nothing was happening. The nephew text back too her asking dont u watch porn and her reply was yes. This I couldnt believe what I was reading. When i approached her about it crying, she said it was just a power thing. I’ve been trying to talk to her, reach her true logical self.
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Then the slight put downs started to occur. I basically blew them off…that was my error in judgement. At the time, it didn’t feel like “testing” to me. We went away for a weekend…all in Blued all it was a “perfect weekend”, until the 2nd night…BOOM. A Major fight about nothing important is what ensued. Next came the extreme jealousy, then the irrationally pointed arguments.
Sexual abuse can cause life-long complications in relationships. As challenging as these symptoms can be, they don’t mean you should give up on someone you care about just because they have a BPD diagnosis. It just means that both of your lives — and your relationship — will benefit if you educate yourself about the condition, symptoms, and what to expect. Buie suggests parents ask themselves whether “dating this person is worth jeopardizing the time you have with your child and their wellbeing.” More often than not, Buie says, it isn’t. Borderline personality disorder can impact relationships. Abandonment anxiety may have different causes.
Then after few days she said that she is not interested in marrying me and said that she got engaged to some one else. After some time she itself contacted me and said she called off the engagement. Again after that she started saying that she is not interested in marrying me. i dont know what to do left everything behind and came here for her now i am in so much confusion.
They seem to have two sides, and you’re never sure which you’ll be getting one day to the next. But you like them and want to make your relationship work. If this sounds familiar, that person might have borderline personality disorder, also known as BPD.
Then I realize how dumb my emotions are. Because he sees that it is silly, I love him. I think it’s a great combo as long as both parties have a morbid sense of humor about life.
You simply need to learn to get control over your behavior. I have an entire course on BPD that helps people gain this control and confidence. But you also need a man that actually has thick skin. This is much bigger than BPD and it’s important to realize this. As I often say, you must be objective and look at the actual, specific behaviors that are occurring in your relationship.
Infatuation is romance and sex rolled into one colossal high. Authentic love takes that one step further to attachment; wanting to stay together. Culturally, many believe older men represent valued attributes that attract younger partners, such as power or property. After an estrangement, many suffer from post-traumatic symptoms, such as emotional flashbacks, hyper-vigilance, and low self-esteem.
